Scott seems to be doing pretty well at being Mr. Mom - all things considered. He has definitely been initiated into motherhood this week. They have been late for school due to a stinky diaper. Both Sophie and Sam have runny noses - it sounds as though Sam's is worse - which probably explains why he had a couple of nose bleeds - which leads to washing all his bed linens. And you know how fun it is to remove a crib bumper and it is even more fun to put it back on. Oh did I mention that Sam threw up at a church dinner on Wednesday night? Luckily for Scott reinforcement came tonight. His sister came to help out because he has a meeting tomorrow in another town. Aunt Michelle rocks. She is like the ultimate mom. So no worries at all. Except they may want Aunt Michelle to be their mom instead. Scott said Sophie was disappointed to learn that he would only be gone one night. She said, "Oh but I want Aunt Michelle to keeps us for weeks."
So onto why my children are being left alone with their father. I have not mentioned this on the my blog before because, honestly, I struggled with how to address it. This past summer my mother was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. As you may know, this is an aggressive cancer with no real treatment options. At this point, she is under Hospice care and we are just here to support her and let her know we love her. She daily says she is ready and prays for God to call her home.
This is difficult to watch. No one wants to see his or her loved ones suffer. To be in so much pain and distress. So I ask you to join us in praying for with our family during this emotional time.
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I'll be lifting you and your entire family up to our KING!
Carrie, I will absolutely keep your family in my prayers. I'm so sorry. Please let me know if I can help in any way-I'd keep the kids, bring you meals, whatever you need. Hugs, Jenny
Carrie,
I have prayed for your mom and family for a long time. I only met her a couple of times, but I feel like I know her. And I feel like I know her through you and Jennifer and Sarah. I see her as compassionate, smart, feisty and loyal. I pray for your dad most of all.
Wishing you peace,
Karen
Carrie, my heart goes out to you right mow. I know how difficult it is when your parent is so sick. I lost my father 3 years ago. I will be praying for you and your family. It sounds like your mother has a strong faith and knows what wonders await her. It's wonderful that you able to be with her now and that you have supportive family to help you out. Cuddos to Scott and Aunt Michelle!
Carrie, I have been praying for your familly during this difficult time. I didn't want to mention it until you did, because I know how hard it is to watch a parent become sick. If there is anything I can do for you or your family, please let me know.
I have already been praying...and will continue to pray for your mom and your entire family.
Big hugs headed your way,
Kerry
Oh, Carrie, I'll be praying for all of you.
oh honey, I am so sorry. That is so much on your shoulders. It is good of you to be with your mom when you can. Please let me know if I can help with the kids or anything. Thank you for letting us know even though I know it was difficult. Those with the most faith (sounds like your mom in this situation) show us the way. I pray that God gives you and your family strength and courage to be there with your mom and also peace.
Carrie, I am so sorry to hear about your mom's illness. You will be in our thoughts!
Carrie,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I have been there and know how difficult it is. Hospice is wonderful and it was so reassuring to my father to have us all there at his side the final days of his life.
I will continue to pray for you and your family. If there is anything you need I'm just a phone call away.
Love,
Cindy
Big hugs, lots of love, and many prayers for you.....
Tanja
Carrie, My heart goes out to you. I lost my Mom after a battle with lupus in August 2007. I will say this, in some ways it was easier to let her go because she was suffering and there was no doubt in my mind that she would be better off once she passed. Having said that, I still miss her every day and I still am not used to picking up the phone and calling her constantly. I wish you and your family - but especially your mom - peace.
- Wendy
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